Understanding Female Body Language

Understanding Female Body Language

By top-flirting-tips.com

How to read female body language - its fascinated men for centuries, and its also confused men for centuries.

It can appear confusing but really its simple once you look at it from the girls perspective.

Look at it this way, girls are more deliberate in giving out flirting signals, usually produced for a specific target and sometimes with intent and sometimes without intent.

Its the Intent that can sometimes be confusing at first, but can be easily interpreted with some simple tests.

How to read female body language signals

Firstly is she giving you more than one signal?. A flirty glance or a big smile may seem like she is interested but she may be like that all the time - or maybe it was not delivered with any real intent. Look for more than one little signal. The key to reading female body language is to look for clusters of signals.

Imagine if we could go into a social setting and be an investigator a modern day sleuth. We could interview, investigate and probe the other sex and find out what they actually are thinking when they smile, wink, play with their hair or just laugh like crazy?

Would be interesting wouldn't it?

Well that is what we get to do every month, every year.

Our flirting workshops have provided some of these answers using a line up of girls to flirt, tease and have fun with guys, and the guys get to ask them all about it - if they were showing interest, flirting with intent or even faking enthusiasm.

Its an interesting study as we rarely get to ask what the opposite sex is really thinking about in a social situation.

Well here we have been a female body language sleuth for you. We hope it helps.

Female body language - is she interested in you?

BIG CLUE - Look for a cluster of 3 or more of the following signals when reading female body language. Of course if you take some of these just on face value it could mean anything. Its how they are packaged i.e done in quick succession and targeted at the same person.

We repeat this throughout this website, in the workshops, in courses and at speed dating - you MUST look for clusters of these signals.

She keeps glancing over - Its human nature we keep looking towards who we are attracted to. The trick is to find out as some girls can be prone to avoid the one they are attracted to. Of course they cannot make it easy for you guys. So don't despair if you can't see her looking initially - she may be without you knowing!. Extended eye contact - No better way to make a guy's blood start rushing than with extended eye contact. Don't worry if it makes you feel funny - run with it and enjoy feeling a bit uncomfortable. It can make your ego soar through the roof! We like the following article explaining the physiological reaction to eye contact. Touching - If she breaks the contact barrier during conversation, its a big sign. Of course some women are naturally very touchy, so again see if she is like that with other people. Plays with her hair or object when looking at you - Part of the preening process, she is comfortable enough to show you she feels feminine around you. Exposes palm of her hands facing you - Look for the tell tale signs whether she is closed off or open to you. This is what we call the 'non-verbal leakage' she isn't controlling. If she is open with you and lets you in, its a better sign than you might think! Licks her lips - Sub-conscious signals are around us all the time. the next question of course is who is she licking her lips for? Crossing and uncrossing her legs - This is great flirting language. Look for the other great move of her straightening her skirt yet showing a little more leg. Adjust her clothing or preen whilst looking at you - As we know women do a lot of preening without anyone's encouragement, so if she is doing this whilst looking at you, its probably just for you. If she's smiling as well...bam it could be the start of something. Whisper and lean - This is a classic flirting technique and something girls use a lot more than guys. Establishing rapport for girls is top on the list and if she shares a little secret with you, its a big sign she likes you. Accidentally brushes past you - We both have seen this one so many times at the speed dating events, especially later in the night. We are amazed how many times guys do not pick up on it though. You have to be aware of everything happening!. Shoulder flash - You will find if you watch women flirting its often a process of exposing flesh. They know it gets a reaction from guys and even the slightest added bonus of undressed, exposed skin can make a guy lose concentration. Shoes dangling at the toes - Dangling high heels on a woman can accentuate her legs and be a little revealing as well as playful. Don't worry so much which way her toes are pointing - look at where her eyes are. That’s where the target is! You see, knowing how to read female body language is not that hard when you look at it. Look for clusters of 3 signals or more and remember to have fun and don't overthink it. It is meant to be easy after all!